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Happenings: Our August Calendar of Events

Due to the coronavirus pandemic, some live events may have been changed or canceled. Please check with the host before attending.

Museum & Art Spaces

AACA Museum
161 Museum Dr., Hershey
717-566-7100; aacamuseum.org

“Highlights of Our Collection,” featuring unique and notable vehicles from the museum’s permanent collection.

“Saluting First Responders and Frontline Workers,” an exhibit highlighting vehicles used to help in times of crisis.

“Yes, We Drive These Cars,” featuring several very early cars, kept in working order by the Horseless Carriage Club of America, plus early signage and artifacts, through Oct. 18.

“Look . . . They Gave Me a Map,” an exhibit of free road maps curated by the Road Map Collectors Association, through Oct. 30.

Carlisle Arts Learning Center
38 W. Pomfret St., Carlisle
717-249-6973; carlislearts.org

“Finding Inspiration,” works by painter and mixed media artist Rebecca Pollard Myers and found object sculptor Jason Lyons, who both look for and find inspiration in their surroundings by seeing things with fresh eyes, Aug. 7-Sept. 19

The Cornerstone Coffeehouse
2133 Market St., Camp Hill
717-737-5026; thecornerstonecoffeehouse.com

Artist of the Month:

Gallery on the Square
Millersburg Area Art Association
226 Union St., Millersburg
Facebook: Gallery on the Square

“A Growing Creative Community,” works by the Susquehanna Valley Chapter of the Pennsylvania Guild of Craftsmen, through Sept. 12

Pennsylvania National Fire Museum
1820 N. 4th St., Harrisburg
717-232-8915; pnfm.org

Exhibits dedicated to Pennsylvania firefighting history

Susquehanna Art Museum
1401 N. 3rd St., Harrisburg
717-233-8668; sqart.org

“Creating Joy—Art Inspired By Music,” through Sept. 20

“Separate and Unequaled: Celebrating the 100th Anniversary of the Negro Leagues,” through Oct. 18

“Picturing the Body,” an exhibition of photographs created as part of a Millersville University course of the same name, through Oct. 25

“Historic Memory,” paintings by Joerg Dressler and Shawn Huckins that address the collective, or historic, memory of Western culture and its influences on contemporary consciousness, through Nov. 8

Wildwood Park
100 Wildwood Way, Harrisburg
717-221-0292; wildwoodlake.org

“Art in the Wild,” nature-inspired trailside art installations created by artists using natural materials, through Sept. 30

Read, Make, Learn

Carlisle Arts Learning Center
38 W. Pomfret St., Carlisle
717-249-6973; carlislearts.org

Aug. 1: Intro to Quick Sketch Portraits, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.
Aug. 8: Experimental Mixed Media 1-Day Workshop, 10 a.m.-2:30 p.m.
Aug. 10-14: Art & Adventure Camp, 9 a.m.-3 p.m.
Aug. 17-21: ZOOM! Camp—Bread Making Magic, 1-4 p.m.
Aug. 18-Sept. 8: Sketching Around Carlisle, Tuesdays, 5-7 p.m.
Aug. 18-Sept. 22: Play with Clay at the End of the Day, 3:30-5 p.m.
Aug. 12: Lovely Lanterns, 6-7:30 p.m.
Aug. 22: Bundle Dye with Flowers and Herbs, 10 a.m.-12:30 p.m.

Dauphin County Library System
dcls.org

Aug. 3: ZOOM—Paws 2 Read, 6-7:30 p.m.
Aug. 3, 10: ZOOM—Born to Read (birth-18 months), 10:30-11 a.m.
Aug. 3, 10: Online Armchair Traveler, 11 a.m.
Aug. 4, 11: Writers Workshop, 10 a.m.
Aug. 4: Virtual Family Paint Party, 10:30-11 a.m.
Aug. 5, 12: ZOOM—Toddler Storytime, 10:30-11:15 a.m.
Aug, 5, 12: ZOOM—Build Your Own Book Club, 4-5:30 p.m.
Aug. 6: Virtual Family Paint Party, 6-6:30 p.m.
Aug. 6: Susan Orlean Spotlight—Oral History Workshop, 7-8 p.m.
Aug. 7, 14: Virtual Preschool Storytime, 10:30-11:15 a.m.
Aug. 7, 14: Mid-Day Get Away on Facebook, 1 p.m.
Aug. 7, 14, 21, 28: Virtual Dungeons and Dragons, 3-5 p.m.
Aug. 8: Virtual Reading the Rainbow Book Club, 1-2 p.m.
Aug. 11: ZOOM—Fairy Tale Yoga for families and kids, 10:30-11 a.m.
Aug. 13: ZOOM—Fairy Tale Yoga for families and kids, 6-7 p.m.
Aug. 19: Virtual Community Café, 6-7 p.m.

Elizabethtown Public Library
10 S. Market St., Elizabethtown
717-367-7467; etownpubliclibrary.org

Aug. 6, 20: Family LEGO Club, 11 a.m.
Aug. 5, 12: Tent Time with Jennifer, 10:30 a.m.
Aug. 11: Ryan the Bug Man, 2 p.m.

Fredricksen Library
100 N. 19th St., Camp Hill
717-761-3900; fredricksenlibrary.org

Aug. 3, 7, 10, 14: Online Story Time with Miss Emily and Roasty the Cat, 3-4 p.m.
Aug. 4: ZOOM—Curl up with the Classics—“Oliver Twist,” 10-11 a.m.
Aug. 5: ZOOM—Moving Forward Book Group w/ Hospice of Central PA, 1-2 p.m.
Aug. 6, 13, 20, 27: ZOOM—Plot Twisters (ages 15-18), 6:30 p.m.
Aug. 10: ZOOM—Meet Someone New Biography Club (ages 7-10), 10-11 a.m.
Aug. 12: ZOOM—Tween Paint Nights, 1-2 p.m.
Aug. 17: ZOOM—Budgeting Basics, 11 a.m. and 6 p.m.
Aug. 24: ZOOM—Fredricksen Reads, 7-8 p.m.
Aug. 26: ZOOM—Write On, 8-9 p.m.

Hershey Public Library
701 Cocoa Ave., Hershey
717-533-6555; hersheylibrary.org

Aug. 2: Art of Truth Creative Non-Fiction online, 2 p.m.
Aug. 4, 11: ZOOM—Marie’s All About Color, 7-8:30 p.m.
Aug. 5: ZOOM—Lightroom Processing, 7 p.m.
Aug. 23: ZOOM—U.S./China Relationship—Heading for War?, 2 p.m.
Aug. 27: Facebook Live—Hamilton Trivia—The Man & the Musical, 7 p.m.

Joseph T. Simpson Public Library
16 N. Walnut St, Mechanicsburg
717-766-0171; simpsonlibrary.org

Aug. 3, 10, 17, 24: Family Story Time, 6:30 p.m.
Aug. 4, 11, 18, 25: Try It Tuesday, 6 p.m.
Aug. 4, 11, 18, 25: Tea & Stitches, 10 a.m.
Aug. 5, 12, 19, 26: ZOOM—Summer Story Time, 1:30
Aug. 6, 13, 20, 27: Mah Jongg, 10 a.m.-1 p.m.
Aug. 12: Mad About Mysteries, 7-8 p.m.
Aug. 26: Apple Users Group, 1-3 p.m.

The LBGT Center of Central PA
1306 N. 3rd St., Harrisburg
717-920-9534; centralpalgbtcenter.org

Aug. 2, 9, 16, 23, 30: Common Roads Young Adult, 4-6 p.m.
Aug. 5, 12, 19, 26: Common Roads Youth, 6-8 p.m.
Aug. 10, 17, 24, 31: Passageways, 2-4 p.m.

Midtown Scholar Bookstore-Café
1302 N. 3rd St., Harrisburg
717-236-1680; midtownscholar.com

Aug. 3: Virtual talk with David Livingstone Smith and Paul Bloom, 7-8 p.m.
Aug. 11: Virtual talk with Rebecca Watson and Miranda Popkey, 7-8 p.m.
Aug. 12: Virtual talk with Adam Rutherford, 6-7 p.m.
Aug. 17: Virtual talk with Aimee Nezhukumatathil and Ross Gay. 7-8 p.m.
Aug. 18: Virtual talk with Sarah Chayes and Jared Yates Sexton, 7-8 p.m.
Aug. 20: Virtual talk with Jill Filipovic and Connie Schultz, 7-8 p.m.

National Civil War Museum
One Lincoln Circle, Harrisburg
717-260-1861; nationalcivilwarmuseum.org

Aug. 8: U.S. Grant, the Meaning of the Civil War, and the Election of 1868, 1-2 p.m.
Aug. 22: From Gettysburg to Little Big Horn: The George Armstrong Custer, Civil War and Indian Wars 2020 Symposium, 8:45 a.m.-5 p.m.

Ned Smith Center for Nature and Art
176 Water Company Rd., Millersburg
717-692-3699; nedsmithcenter.org

Aug. 4-6: Find Your Passion Art Camp
Aug. 11-13: Swirls, Stories & Spirals

Palmyra Public Library
50 Landings Dr., Annville
717-838-1347; palmyra.lclibs.org

Aug. 10: Palmyra Public Library Book Club (email [email protected] for location)

Wildwood Park
100 Wildwood Way, Harrisburg
717-221-0292; wildwoodlake.org

Aug. 1: Natural Tie-Dye, 12-3 p.m.
Aug. 12: Wildwood Wellness Walk, 5:45-7:15 p.m.
Aug. 12: Preschool Storytime—Summer at Wildwood, 10-10:45 a.m.
Aug. 16: Flower Walk—Heat Tolerant Plants, 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m.
Aug. 22; Summer Wreath Workshop, 10 a.m. and 11:30 a.m.
Aug. 27: Wildwood Wellness Walk, 5:45-7:15 p.m.

Live Music

Appell Center for the Performing Arts
50 N. George St., York
717-846-1111; appellcenter.org

Aug. 15: YourVoice Virtual Event

Chameleon Club
223 N. Water St., Lancaster
717-299-9684; chameleonclub.net

Aug. 21: LA Guns, Dylan Scott

Club XL
801 S. 10th St., Harrisburg
717-409-8975; xlhbg.com

Aug. 1: Yam Yam, Shawan and the Wonton
Aug. 7: Brandon “Taz” Niederauer

Gretna Music
gretnamusic.org

Aug. 8: GM4K Storyteller
Aug. 23: Mozart String Trio
Aug. 30: McGill-McHale Duo

House of Music, Arts & Culture (H*MAC)
1110 N. 3rd St., Harrisburg
717-441-7506; harrisburgarts.com

Aug. 14: Escape the Fate
Aug. 22: Bark at the Moon tribute to Ozzy Osbourne

Ned Smith Center for Nature and Art
176 Water Company Rd., Millersburg
717-692-3699; nedsmithcenter.org

Aug. 1: Still Surfin’ – A Beach Boys Tribute
Aug. 8: The Ann Kerstetter Band
Aug. 29: Shotgunn

The Susquehanna Folk Music Society
717-745-6577; sfmsfolk.org

Aug. 9: Virtual Emerging Artist Showcase

The Stage Door

The Belmont Theatre

27 S. Belmont St., York

717-854-3894; thebelmont.org

Aug. 21-30: “The Miracle Worker”

Dutch Apple Dinner Theatre
510 Centerville Rd., Lancaster
717-898-1900; DutchApple.com

Aug. 7-30: “Clue”

Whitaker Center
222 Market St., Harrisburg
717-214-ARTS; whitakercenter.org

Aug. 12: Online Story Slam

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Burg Books: “Out in Central Pennsylvania” tells story of our area’s LGBTQ community

Despite being born in Arizona, William Burton spent the majority of his life in big cities. As soon as he could, he moved to Houston, then Boston. These major cities, Burton called “safe havens” for some gay people.

“I realized I’ve been living in a bubble,” he said. “I lived in areas that had laws that protected me. I had gay neighborhoods. I had social networks right outside my door… I had an entirely different experience than people in central Pennsylvania.”

This drove Burton to explore the queer history of our area. Four years later, he released his book, “Out in Central Pennsylvania: The History of an LGBTQ Community.”

Burton, along with his co-author and head of the LGBT History Project, Barry Loveland, held their look launch on Wednesday night via Midtown Scholar’s virtual book talk series. In lieu of Pride Month, the bookstore collaborated with the LGBT Center of Central PA. The authors were joined by Frank Pizzoli, editor and publisher of the Central Voice, Central PA’s LGBTQ newspaper.

Burton discussed what prompted him to tell these stories, many of which were unknown to the general public.

“Most of the stories that have been written were about large urban areas,” he said. “You don’t think about non-urban areas, and that’s what this book’s about.”

The book discusses the formation of central PA’s gay community and some of the activists and organizers behind it. With the suggestion of their publisher, Penn State Press, the book is broken down chronologically.

The first chapter is about discovery and what it was like for people in this area to come out. There were stories about how people’s families and communities reacted to their queerness.

A section on early life documented what gay bars were like in this area and the police raids that plagued them prior to the Stonewall riots in New York City.

“I was blown away,” Burton said. “The stories of harassment, discrimination, how the networks formed, the people that did them…”

Most of the information came from oral stories collected by the LGBT History project, which started in 2012, as well as newspapers and newsletters. The stories were used to bring the book to life and create more of a personal touch.

“A lot of them are very emotional kinds of stories,” Loveland said. “It’s been amazing to collect these stories and tell these stories in this kind of approach.”

Aside from sharing queer history, the authors hope the book helps educate young people who are still in the midst of fighting for equality.

And they seem to be on the right path already. One audience member said that, as a young trans person living in a small town, the book inspired them in a way “bigger” heroes don’t.

“I hope I can do for the next generation what my queer predecessors did for me,” they said.

According to Burton, writing this book opened his eyes to many of the trials and tribulations the rural queer community has been through. He hopes that writing this will help others do the same.

“Hopefully, some of the young people that don’t know the history, that they’ll be inspired and say ‘Maybe I can make a difference too,’” he said.

You can purchase “Out in Central Pennsylvania” on the LGBT Center’s website. A portion of the proceeds goes towards funding the LGBT History Project.

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Bob’s Art Blog: Powerful Art Association exhibits spotlight LGBTQ history, opioid crisis

“Growth,” acrylic on paper, at the Art Association of Harrisburg

The summer of 1969, now half a century past, was one for the annals of time.

Revolutionary on many fronts, the year included the celebration of “peace, music and love” at Woodstock and the first men to land on the moon. In New York’s Greenwich Village, three days of violent riots took place to protest police harassment in a raid at the Stonewall Inn. The latter proved to be a watershed moment for advancing LGBT rights, pushing that movement to the foreground in a battle for equality and gay liberation.

The Art Association of Harrisburg, in conjunction with the LGBT Center of Central Pennsylvania and the Dickinson College archives, has mounted the exhibit, “Hope, Memory & Pride: Artists View Equality,” curated by AAH’s wunderkind, Rachel O’Connor. It showcases the event in picture and prose across varied mediums.

The juried exhibit is part of a dual show featuring the work of award-winning artist, Maria Maneos, and her “Brush With the Law” initiative. That exhibit deals directly with the opioid epidemic. Maneos won a juried award for her entry in Pennsylvania’s “Art of the State” in 2018.  Since then, she has become even more of an agent of change, bringing the opioid crisis front and center through her art.

The exhibit that became “Hope, Memory and Pride” was the brainchild of Barry Loveland, chair of the LGBT Center’s History Project, who brought the idea to AAH to help commemorate the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Inn riots.

Given free reign and the LGBT Center’s blessing, curator O’Connor sought artists to view the History Project’s collection, stored at Dickinson, and create art inspired by items from its trove of materials. In addition, O’Connor asked the artists “to write a statement of accompaniment as to why LGBTQ visibility/equality is meaningful, what transpired at Stonewall meant to them or their thoughts on being an ally for the cause.”

In emphasizing the struggle the LGBT community faced back in 1969 and that continues today, O’Connor drew on the properties of vinyl when illustrating the artists’ viewpoints. Vinyl represents durability, resistance to abrasion and, in a metaphorical sense, is often used in fencing.

With Stonewall, the gay community took a stand tearing down the fences, the barriers of society represented by the police raid, stating that no more would they be put in a box as outcasts. It became the battle cry then and for generations to come. Representative of the individualistic interpretations are artist Robert McCormick’s, “Trans-American Gothic,” (pictured) a riff on Grant Wood’s iconic 1930 painting of a Midwestern couple posed outside their house. McCormick’s assemblage, incorporating true blue denim, patchwork fabric, paint, metal, wood and paper, puts a 21st-century spin on the American classic. In another, an acrylic by STEN features a “Dude in Blue T-shirt” through a heavily textured painting rich in colors and tone. The painting lends credence to its insight that “there is courage and a knowing that makes coming out the ultimate choice.”

No matter gender, color or sexual orientation, we are human beings and should be given equal rights by law. With “Hope, Memory & Pride,” the LGBTQ community’s just cause is given their due historically and fundamentally.

The Second Floor Gallery is devoted to the second exhibit, “Bits & Pieces of the Past,” which reflects the efforts of one person to promote radical change toward reversing a trend that has reached epidemic proportions. The ever-growing numbers of opioid overdoses and deaths has hit critical mass.

Artist Maria Maneos and her program, “Brush With the Law,” takes the purposeful and restorative nature of art therapy to the prisons, teaching inmates like her son the power of creating a personal statement of reflection and growth out of their pain of addiction. Maneos’ art pulls no punches in its stark portrayal. Her award-winning “Art of the State” work, titled “5535-2017,” referenced the staggering number of lives lost to opioid overdoses in 2017. One of her timely works from this exhibit is “Power,” an outsized oil on canvas of a woman dressed only in her undergarments draped over a commode, making the power of drugs palpable (pictured). Another work by an inmate, entitled “Growth,” acrylic on paper, may be a unique take on personal reflection as a vine wraps around the figure, extending upward beyond her pain.

The connection between the two exhibits hinges on the word “Hope.” Society’s narrow view of what lies outside the norm often loses sight of the universal need that we all share regardless of our own walk. Hope can overcome all obstacles in our journey, for, with hope, obstacles can become opportunities and agency for change. Hope for tolerance and acceptance. Hope for a brighter tomorrow in which we all respect one another no matter race, religion, color, creed, gender or sexual orientation.

“Hope, Memory & Pride: Artists View Equality” and “Bits & Pieces of the Past” run through Nov. 21 at the Art Association of Harrisburg, 21 N. Front St., Harrisburg. For more information, visit their website.

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Pieces of Peace: This spring, take a contemplative stroll along Harrisburg’s new Peace Promenade.

Lenwood Sloan

Lenwood Sloan brought home a peace offering from Hawaii.

Inspired by a conference on global tourism in the Aloha State, he accepted the challenge to take part in the 2018 Global Peace Park Project, with the vision of erecting “peace parks” in all 24 time zones.

In Harrisburg, his idea now spans more than two scenic miles along the east bank of the Susquehanna River. He assembled a “Peace Promenade,” featuring seven existing, but frequently overlooked, monuments, along with the Harrisburg Riverboat, to represent eight pieces of peace.

He hopes that joggers, bikers, power-walkers, festival-goers and motorists moving along Front Street will pause for a moment and consider this pathway of peace. He realizes that far too many passersby never even look up, blinded by haste, jaded by the familiar, or unaware of the significance that inspired the stones.

The promenade is a passion project for Sloan, a self-anointed “catalytic agent” who formerly worked as the city’s arts and culture director and the state’s film commissioner.

When he began, Sloan found that the monuments along the riverfront, tragically, “were foster children.” The city cut the grass around them, but no one took responsibility for them, he said. Worse, few people even knew they existed—even though they may push a stroller or zoom by them in their climate-controlled cars every day.

He was initially “despondent” after several potential supporters declined to help with the project. But he persisted, eventually stitching together what he calls “a crazy quilt” of more than 40 organizations and 200-plus individuals, including state Rep. Patty Kim, the Dauphin County commissioners, local history aficionados and the downtown community.

Riverfront Park, he said, was a natural fit for the park because it already served as a backdrop to so many summertime celebrations on long holiday weekends and is the scene of many 5Ks and family reunions.

“Although we are often a diverse and conflicted community, everyone finds the river as common ground,” Sloan said.

The promenade starts at Market Street and continues to the Peace Pole and Garden, near Emerald Street, built decades ago by the Physicians for Social Responsibility. In the yearlong program, many businesses along 2nd and 3rd streets are offering community conversations as part of the “ground-up movement of coalition-building,” Sloan said, including the Art Association of Harrisburg and the Susquehanna Art Museum.

“This is a passion project by people who are already doing this work, but often in isolation,” he said.

Oasis
The project began last fall with dialogues on the nature of war and peace. After a mid-winter break, it was re-started in late February, as the group honored exemplars of peace, including Homer Floyd, Dr. George Love, K. Leroy Irvis and Dr. and Mrs. John Judson.

The next event in the series will be held later this month to honor the sacrifice of women, Sloan said.

The women’s monument at Front and Clinton streets is the centerpiece of the commemoration.

Erected after World War I, the monument features five women embodying five iconic roles: a mother waving to her military son, a woman in uniform herself, a farm woman holding a rake, a refugee and a Salvation Army nurse.

When the endeavor started, the monument was filled with graffiti and looked like a tombstone, Sloan said.

Former city economic development director Jeb Stuart helped identify cemetery experts who lent advice on how to clean the stone and plate. The Tri-County Federation of Democratic Women and the Harrisburg Keystone Rotary Club adopted the stone, which will be re-dedicated on March 24, and a circular sitting garden will be planted.

Two days later, a civic dialogue will be held with five area residents who will represent the iconic women symbolized on the monument. The Rev. Brenda Alton will moderate the discussion, featuring former York mayor and veteran Kim Bracey; Suzanne Sheaffer, a Gold Star mother; Major Elizabeth Greiner, who will represent the Salvation Army; Tara Bronbeck, who will represent the farmer; and Ho-Thanh Nyguen of the Pennsylvania Immigrant and Refugee Women’s Network.

“Harrisburg is an oasis and safe house for refugee women all over the world,” Sloan said.

On April 9, the group will advance through time to World War II, focusing on the riverfront’s silhouetted Holocaust memorial. Lillian Rappaport of the Jewish Community Center will lead the dialogue for the event, which will be held at the House of Music, Arts & Culture (formerly Harrisburg Midtown Arts Center), which once served as Harrisburg’s Jewish Community Center.

Sloan said that not only was the Jewish population persecuted in the dark days of Hitler, but so were Catholics, the gay and lesbian community and the disabled. So, representatives from the LGBT Center of Central PA and the disabled community will take part in the discussion, too.

Change Agent
Sloan also pointed to the time capsule that sits virtually unnoticed at Front and Locust streets across from St. Stephen’s Episcopal Cathedral.

“People sit and eat their cheeseburger at Memorial Day, Fourth of July and Labor Day and never know it’s there,” Sloan said. “The capsule is a pretty shabby lady right now.”

It holds yearbooks, letters and more, but, because it was assembled in the early 1960s, many voices were left out, he lamented, including the voices of women and people of color.

To release those voices, a Chautauqua, or educational gathering, will take place on May 6 at St. Stephen’s. David Carmichael, the new director of PA State Archives, will be the keynote speaker and facilitator.

“All our events are free,” Sloan said, encouraging all to attend. “Just bring your heart, your spirit, and your will to be a change agent.”

For more information on the Peace Promenade, visit www.dauphincounty.org or email [email protected].

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At Home: The LGBT Center of PA helped Amanda Arbour. Now, she’s leading the way.

For Amanda Arbour, being asked to serve as the executive director of the LGBT Center of Central PA was like returning home.

Shortly after coming out as a lesbian, Arbour sought out the center as a place to feel included and be herself.

“I would come to movie screenings, ice cream socials, 3rd in the Burgs,” she said. “Just a lot of the open community events that are less formal. As I’m coming out and finding my community, this was a welcoming place for me and not just in my professional role but just me as a queer person.”

In her new role, Arbour hopes to make the center as welcoming to all queer people as it was to her. Part of that, she says, is “recognizing that, within our LGBTQ community, we have racism.”

“We have transphobia, biphobia, xenophobia,” she said. “All the forms of oppression in our society, unfortunately, are also present within our LGBT communities.”

(sub)Push Back
Tackling such difficult questions about race and identity is well within the reach of Arbour, a lifelong social activist.

After the Philadelphia native graduated from Messiah College, she began work at the campus Service Learning Center “engaging students in local community service opportunities, primarily in Harrisburg, and providing an educational lens through which they could reflect upon and learn from their experiences.”

Shortly after leaving the SLC for the Pennsylvania Department of Aging, Arbour took on the role of director of racial justice at the YWCA of Greater Harrisburg. There, she cut her teeth leading classes and seminars to help businesses, schools, police departments and other institutions challenge racism in their own organizations.

“Anytime you’re challenging things like racism or white supremacy, there will be parts that push back,” she said. “All of us have been socialized within a society that functions on these oppressions and, in particular, in institutions where it’s been so deeply embedded.”

Approaching such thorny topics did not come without some challenges.

“When I would do trainings or sessions, there would always be people who don’t understand why we’re still talking about race—because clearly racism is not an issue anymore,” she said sarcastically. “Or they wouldn’t understand why language is important, or felt offended when we talked about white privilege or didn’t recognize they had privilege. I would say that, with every training, there was always some kind of pushback like that.”

It’s that kind of self-reflection that Arbour hopes to inspire in the queer community through the LGBT Center.

“I definitely felt like it was my responsibility to particularly educate other white people,” she said. “We have a lot of privileges, and part of that is not having to have conversations about privilege or about race. So, I think there’s a lot less tolerance for that and a lot less practiced ability in having those conversations.”

(sub)Safe Space
For Arbour, this also means addressing the divisions within the queer community and between different identities.

“We often talk about gender and sexuality as gay or straight, men or women, these kind of black and white separations,” she said. “What does it mean when you’re in between or outside of those social constructions? What does it mean for people who are intersex, bisexual or nonbinary?”

Arbour wants the center to be a space where everyone feels at home.

“Trans women of color, queer immigrants who might be undocumented—those that live at those intersections can feel like they can bring their whole selves here and feel recognized and affirmed and see themselves reflected, too,” she said.

To Arbour, the main challenge of the LGBT Center is making sure the organization is well known throughout the midstate as both a resource and a safe space.

“A lot of people don’t know the center is here or don’t know the breadth and depth of services and programs that we offer,” said Arbour, citing the community events, art showings, fundraisers and support groups hosted by the center. “So I wanted to be very intentional in finding creative ways beyond typical ways of advertising to get the word out.”

This is a challenge of particular importance when it comes to gay students and youth.

“I think of, in particular, our youth who are experiencing high levels of bullying and harassment and suicide,” she said.

According to a 2015 study by the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network, more than two-thirds of LGBT students in Pennsylvania had experienced verbal harassment for their sexual orientation or gender identity and nearly one-third had experienced physical harassment.

“I want every queer kid in school to know we’re here and that this space is available,” Arbour said.

And she knows firsthand the value such a space can have to queer people wrestling with their own identities.

“Being a gay woman, being a member of the LGBTQ+ community, this is a neat opportunity to invest in the center that has been important to me personally,” she said.

After all, it played a large role in her own coming-out process.

“I believe very deeply in the work the center does and in creating a safe space and educational programming, supportive services and all the things the center has become known for,” she said.

The LGBT Center of Central PA is located at 1306 N. 3rd St., Harrisburg. For more information, visit www.centralpalgbtcenter.org.

Author: Gillian Branstetter

 

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September News Digest

Madsen Named to Council

Dave Madsen is Harrisburg’s newest council member, as City Council last month appointed the Midtown resident to a four-month term.

Madsen takes the seat vacated by former Councilman Jeffrey Baltimore, who resigned in August.

Six city residents applied for the position, and City Council named four finalists: Madsen, Brian Ostella, Jennie Jenkins and Joshua Burkholder. In the end, Madsen, Ostella and Jenkins received nominations from council, which selected Madsen, a technician with the state Department of Revenue, by a 4-2 vote.

Also last month, the Democratic Committee of Dauphin County selected Madsen to appear on the November ballot as its nominee for a two-year council seat to fill the remainder of Baltimore’s term.

In that committee contest, Madsen narrowly bested city official Devan Drabik after Jenkins withdrew her name from contention and threw her support behind Madsen.


Civil War Museum Accord Reached

Harrisburg’s mayor and a city museum have put aside their contentious past in a deal that would give the museum ownership of its permanent collection.

Mayor Eric Papenfuse and board members of the National Civil War Museum last month outlined an agreement in which the city would sell the collection to the museum for $5.25 million and begin to charge the museum rent.

“My goal has always been to reach an agreement in the city’s best interest, and I believe this is in everyone’s best interest,” Papenfuse said.

After becoming mayor in 2014, Papenfuse strongly objected to deals reached under former Mayor Steve Reed that allowed the museum to display the city-owned artifacts at no cost and that charged the museum just $1 a year in rent for the city-owned building. The new agreement, which must be approved by City Council, addresses both those issues.

First, the city would sell the artifacts to the museum for $5.25 million. In turn, the city would put $1 million into a reserve fund to pay for capital improvements to the building, which the city would continue to own. The other $4 million would pay for improvements to Reservoir Park, where the museum is located.

Under the deal, the museum has five years to raise the $5.25 million to purchase about 25,000 artifacts. If it fails to raise the money within that time, the city would be allowed to sell 20 percent of the museum’s collection.

The agreement also outlines a graduated schedule for the payment of rent.

For the first five years, the museum would pay the city $45,000 per year in rent. However, no money would change hands, as the cumulative amount over that period almost equals the amount of money that the museum is owed by the city for unreimbursed building repair costs dating back to 2009.

“It took us a long time to be here, but I think we realize that this made a heck of a lot of sense for both (parties),” said Gene Barr, a museum board member.”


Harrisburg Finances Praised

State officials last month offered an optimistic forecast for Harrisburg’s 2017 finances, but the city’s ability to maintain a balanced budget through the end of the year remains uncertain.

Members of the city’s Act 47 team appeared before City Council to give a mid-year assessment of the current budget.

Praising the “exemplary” leadership of Mayor Eric Papenfuse and City Council, the team summarized the city’s 2017 finances through June and offered recommendations for the second half of the year.

While the team commended the city’s financial vigilance, Harrisburg will see some challenges looking into the second half of the year.

For example, the city doesn’t yet know if it can count on its annual payment from the state. In past years, the state has made a single, lump-sum payment to Harrisburg to cover the costs of supporting the state Capitol complex.

“Not getting $5 million from the state is a little concerning,” said Bruce Weber, city finance director. “Even though we may be in good financial position now, it’s tenuous.


Term Limits Proposed

Former Harrisburg Mayor Steve Reed served seven full terms, leaving financial devastation in his wake when he left office after 28 years.

City Council President Wanda Williams says she now wants to prevent a future mayor from staying in office too long, thus endangering the welfare of the city. So, she has introduced an ordinance that would limit future Harrisburg mayors to two terms.

“I don’t want that to happen again,” she said.

Mayor Eric Papenfuse said that, in general, he supports term limits for officeholders and might even consider them as part of a new Home Rule charter. However, he does not support this proposal because, he said, one branch of government cannot use term limits “to control” another.

In contrast, he said he might support a proposal that subjects all municipally elected officials to term limits. Williams said that she might go for that.

“If he wants to consider council members, that’s fine with me, too,” said Williams, who, with 12 years on council, is the longest-serving elected official in the city government.

 

Hamilton Health to Expand

A planned expansion at Hamilton Health Center in Allison Hill will increase pre-K access for children in that neighborhood, while also providing additional parking for the facility’s patients and employees.

Last month, Harrisburg City Council approved Hamilton Health’s application to add a new parking lot and a 25,000-squre-foot building to its facility on S. 17th Street. The building will house classrooms for Capital Area Head Start and another childcare facility.

Jo Pepper, executive director of Capital Area Head Start, said that the Hamilton Health expansion will allow her organization to direct more resources to its highest-need area, adding 80 slots starting next year.

“Every year, one of our biggest problems is finding safe, age-appropriate facility space in our areas of need,” Pepper said. “We’ve been looking for additional space in Allison Hill for five years now.”

Capital Area Head Start will occupy five classrooms in the new Hamilton Health building.

“We are a one-stop shop for families to access what they need,” said Jeanine Peterson, CEO of Hamilton Health. “Co-locating with Head Start eliminates a lot of the barriers that a lot of families have in ensuring that their kids get quality health care.”

New Office Building Planned

Downtown Harrisburg may soon get its first new office building in several years, as Harristown plans to clear and develop a narrow space off of Market Square.

Asbestos remediation work began last month on 21 S. 2nd Street, a small, three-story, dilapidated brick building that once housed the Coronet restaurant on the ground floor. Demolition will follow, said Brad Jones, president and CEO of Harristown Enterprises.

“This building was beyond repair,” Jones said. “Rehabilitation is always our preference when working on an old building, but, unfortunately, this former restaurant had severe water damage and asbestos and couldn’t be saved.”

Harristown hopes to construct a new, six-story office building next year, with retail or restaurant space on the first floor, once demolition is completed in February 2018. It expects to combine the space with a renovation of the historic SkarlotosZonarich building next door.

Home Sales Continue Rise

Area home sales resumed their upward trend in August, rising 4.4 percent year over year.

Sales totaled 989 units versus 947 in August 2016, while the median price rose to $184,900 against 169,900 the year earlier, according to the Greater Harrisburg Association of Realtors.

In Dauphin County, 325 homes sold compared to 311 homes in the year-ago period, and the median price was $169,900 versus $157,500, GHAR said. In Cumberland County, sales increased by 10 to 346 units, and the median price rose to $204,950 compared to $178,450 in August 2016.

Perry County had sales of 36 homes, down by two units, while the median price decreased to $159,450 versus $162,250 a year ago.

GHAR covers all of Dauphin, Cumberland and Perry counties and parts of York, Lebanon and Juniata counties.


So Noted


Amanda Arbour
last month was named the new executive director of the LGBT Center of Central PA. Arbour replaces Louie Marven, who served for more than five years in the post.

Beau MacGinnes, gallery curator for Zeroday Brewing Co., captured the first-place prize for “Windows of Perception,” his entry into Wildwood Park’s annual “Art in the Wild” competition. Eve Gurbacki and Adrianne Zimmerman took second place with “When Trees Dream,” and Sean Rafferty and Katlyn Goodyear won third for “Equus Cabullus.”

Boo-Boo’s Barbecue held its grand opening last month at 912 N. 3rd St., Harrisburg. The new eatery, which features barbecued meats and homestyle sides, is owned by Litho “Boo Boo” Ware, a former city police officer.

Harrisburg Bike Share plans to launch this month with 10 city locations downtown, Midtown and on City Island. For a $25 annual fee, users will be able to use the bike-sharing service. For details, visit www.bike.zagster.com.

Meeka Fine Jewelry last month held a ribbon cutting at its location at 2135 Market St., Camp Hill. Owner Monika Kroll co-locates her studio in the renovated space, which features products from eight independent artisans.

Rep. Lou Barletta (R-11) last month announced that he would run for the U.S. Senate in 2018. Barletta, who is in his fourth term in the U.S. House of Representatives, would vie for the seat currently held by Sen. Robert Casey Jr.

Sam Jordan has been promoted to vice president, commercial banking, for S&T Bank. He previously served as assistant vice president, commercial banking.

Timothy Reardon last month announced his retirement as executive director of Tri-County Regional Planning Commission following a seven-year tenure in the position. The commission provides planning services and expertise for the greater Harrisburg area.

Zeroday Brewing Co. last month celebrated the grand opening of the Zeroday Outpost inside the stone building of the Broad Street Market in Harrisburg. To mark the occasion, a “community ribbon cutting” was held, with patrons cutting small pieces of ribbon.


Changing Hands

Adrian St., 2249: N. Townsend to T. Bui, $48,000

Berryhill St., 2338: M. Ortiz to PA Deals LLC, $30,000

Berryhill St., 2432: PA Deals LLC to E. Shelly, $63,500

Boas St., 421: B. Andreozzi to M. Berlin, $115,000

Boas St., 433: D. & D. Dreher to S. Rives, $120,000

Brookwood St., 2619: B. Sweger to J. Torres, $65,200

Buckthorn St., 223 & 225; 1208 Walnut St.; 1468 Zarker St.; 2144 N. 4th St.; 1835 North St.: LMK Properties LLC to RT Propertiez LLC, $86,867

Calder St., 102: K. Goodling & K. Shepherd to C. Hommel, $164,900

Derry St., 2435: PA Deals LLC to J. Tucker, $64,000

Fulton St., 1408: J. Bancroft to K. Black, $109,900

Fulton St., 1413: A. Beasy to C. Wilson, $118,000

Herr St., 214: Leonard J. Dobson Family Limited Partnership to P. Dee, $58,000

Green St., 800: J. & S. Wesley to D. & C. Seltzer, $219,900

Green St., 922: M. Roan to S. Winkeljohn & D. Black, $184,900

Green St., 1201: Equity Trust Co. Gordon Trump IRA to D. & L. Butcher, $189,900

Green St., 1417: B. Williams to L. Santos & O. Labinjo, $173,000

Green St., 1926: W. O’Brien to M. Stier & D. Gottlieb, $210,000

Green St., 2014: H. & S. Johnson to R. & J. Tilley, $135,000

Green St., 2137: N. Morrison to T. Sangrey, $51,000

Green St., 2138: C. Ly to Round Rock Investments LLC, $87,000

Green St., 2340: E. & K. Woolever to J. Clmens, $184,000

Green St., 3240: J. Mueller to M. Sangrey, $115,000

Hamilton St., 232: T. Gagnolet & M. Barth to A. & M. Fretz, $165,000

Harris St., 238: D. Leaman to W. Davis & T. Helwig, $194,824

Harris Terr., 2483: H. Nguyen to HT Properties LLC, $35,000

Lenox St., 1910: M. & J. Bryant to RTD Properties and Management, $40,000

Lexington St., 2600: M. Sink to Harrisburg Properties LLC, $38,500

Logan St., 2000 & 2001 N. 3rd St.: Otterbein Evangelical & Z. Haverstock to New Day Way of the Cross Church in Christ, $85,000

Logan St., 2246: Dobson Family Partnership to S. Powell, $42,294

Maclay St., 219: Kusic Capital Group LLC to Good Management LLC, $105,000

Mercer St., 2424: L. Barber to R. Murphy III, $50,000

Mercer St., 2455: MidFirst Bank to D. Pham, $32,500

Moore St., 2122 & 2122A: 3 Anvi LLC to Harrisburg Homes Investment LLC, $50,000

Nagle St., 120: J. Piglacampo to J. & D. Griffin, $168,500

Naudain St., 1522 & 1524: H. & C. Myers to ERD Small Property LLC, $40,000

N. 2nd St., 1105: K. Brett to Hamr Second Street LLC, $112,000

N. 2nd St., 1331: E. Benion to S. Mimm, $70,120

N. 2nd St., 1714: R. & N. Walborn to Harrisburg Redevelopment Group LLC, $325,000

N. 2nd St., 1909: PA Deals LLC to S. Jusufovic, $35,000

N. 2nd St., 2527: S. & A. Andrus to GRSW Stewart Real Estate Trust, $193,500

N. 2nd St., 3031: J. Ritchie to D. & M. Main, $96,000

N. 3rd St., 1620: K. Reimer to J. Reimer, $90,000

N. 3rd St., 2010: R. Blumenstein to N&R Group LLC, $31,000

N. 3rd St., 2204: R. & M. Zeigler to P. Ford, $146,000

N. 4th St., 1701: R. Steinmetz to S. Biray, $129,000

N. 4th St., 1703: D. Hopkins to S. Bradley & R. Daman, $123,900

N. 5th St., C. & M. Enoch and S. Pollard to S. Jawhar, $35,000

N. 6th St., 1316: A. Kraft & B. Kephart to T. Jones, $92,000

N. 7th St., 2612: Great Foods Inc. to V. Galasso, $50,000

N. 18th St., 112: Bigfoot Properties to Amiracle4sure Inc., $52,500

N. Front St., 1525, Unit 208: I. Valeo to S. & L. Weitzman, $115,000

N. Front St., 1525, Unit 511: A. & C. Yastishock to S. Sulecki, $200,000

N. Front St., 1525, Unit 601: A. Prashar to J. Devine, $174,900

Penn St., 1706: W. & M. Fontana to C. Harris, $132,000

Race St., 612: C. Pinto to D. Amaguayo, $180,000

Rudy Rd., 2492: My Neighbor LLC to HT Properties LLC, $33,600

S. 2nd St., 21: D. Bratic to South Second Associates LLC, $150,000

S. 17th St., 209: K. Lawson to M. Khan, $60,000

S. 17th St., 447: O. & Y. Han to C&P Property Management, Inc., $60,000

S. 28th St., 726: R. McClure to P. & L. Brown, $35,000

S. 29th St., 712: C. Kiscadden to M. Gill, $92,900

State St., 234: G. & L. Martin to Harrisburg Buildings & Grounds Co., $163,000

State St., 1508: 1508 State Street LLC to Harrisburg Homes Investment LLC, $40,000

Woodlawn St., 2511: T. Hoa to PA Double Deals LLC, $130,000

Harrisburg property sales for August 2017, greater than $30,000. Source: Dauphin County. Data is assumed to be accurate.

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Arbour Named New Executive Director of LGBT Center of Central PA

Amanda Arbour

Amanda Arbour has been named the new executive director of the LGBT Center of Central PA, the center announced this morning.

Arbour replaces Louie Marven, who left after a five-year tenure to take a position with the National Sexual Violence Resource Center.

Most recently, Arbour served as the racial justice program coordinator at the YWCA Greater Harrisburg. She earned a bachelor’s degree in sociology and politics from Messiah College and is pursuing a master’s degree of education in training and development from Penn State Harrisburg.

With this appointment, Arbour becomes the Harrisburg-based center’s third executive director.

“I’m proud to be part of this diverse, vibrant and resilient community,” Arbour said in a statement. “I look forward to working with the board of directors, staff, partners, donors and community members to continue providing the safe spaces, supportive services and educational programs that the LGBT Center has become known for.”

Arbour’s past work includes service as the legislative liaison for the Pennsylvania Department of Aging and interim coordinator of local community service for the Agape Center for Service and Learning at Messiah College.

“I am appreciative of Amanda’s evolving understanding and continuous display of ally-accomplice-ship to communities of color, people with disabilities, immigrants, trans-specific issues and more,” said Shaashawn Dial-Snowden, board president, in a statement. “Amanda is a bold, consistent voice in our movement and I look forward to working with her.”

Arbour begins in her new role on Sept. 11. To welcome her, an open house will be held at the LGBT Center, located at 1306 N. 3rd St. in Harrisburg, from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m., Friday, Sept. 22.

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Class Act: In Harrisburg, it’s lights, action–learn.

Photo by Haley Harned.

Photo by Haley Harned.

Harrisburg has some great theater—lots of us already know that. But did you know it also has theater training?

Open Stage of Harrisburg Studio/School has been offering classes since 1985, making it one of the longest running theater schools in the area. Classes are available for both children and adults and often culminate in showcases where students can share what they’ve learned with family, friends and the public.

Starting as young as age 8, children and teens can choose from the year-long OSHKids Performance Company or 180Prep and summer offerings of OSHKids or the Music Theatre Workshop. Classes are also offered for adults with options available from September through March.

Veronica Biegen’s children have participated in the OSHKids Performance Company, Music Theatre Workshop and 180Prep.

“I can’t overstate how much they love it and how much growth we’ve seen in both of them because of it,” she said.

The benefits extend beyond acting skills, Biegen said.

“I get so many comments from teachers on how they present themselves with more maturity, how their in-class speaking projects and speeches are much more mature, and their approach to the materials, especially literature, is deeper and more thoughtful,” she said.

Biegen’s children will both be attending the Capital Area School for the Arts Charter School in the fall.

Kara Miller, who is currently enrolled at the prestigious Atlantic Acting School in New York City, planned on pursuing field hockey until an injury sidelined her plans. Open Stage Associate Artistic Director Stuart Landon then encouraged her to look into the theater’s classes.

“Because of Open Stage, I knew I wanted to have a career in theater,” said Miller. “It was the first time I felt confident in something I was sending out to the world.”

She credits her acceptance to the Atlantic Acting School to her time at Open Stage studying with Education Director Anne Alsedek.

Open Stage classes are not just for those looking to pursue acting as a full-time or even part-time career. The theater’s classes focus on a technique created by Sanford Meisner, one of the great acting teachers of the 20th century, which encourages actors to be authentic, organic, truthful and reactive. These key elements, once learned, can be applied across many facets of life.

Michael Chapaloney had always considered exploring acting, but realized the benefits of Open Stage acting classes could have a far greater impact.

“I thought it would help professionally with developing greater public speaking skills, improving my presentation style,” said Chapaloney.

And he did not feel overwhelmed at the prospect of not having any prior acting experience.

“I felt very comfortable not having past theater experience,” he said. “You start with such basics that you really develop the foundation for moving forward.”

After the class ended, Chapaloney appeared in a staged reading of “The Normal Heart” at Open Stage.

“It was incredible,” he said. “It put two things together that I really enjoy—the experience of performing and using some of what I learned through the Studio School, but it also benefited the LGBT Center of Central PA. It was a good blend of two things I’m passionate about.”

The fall session for this year’s OSHKids Performance Company (ages 8 to 13) begins in September. 180Prep, an acting program for 14 to 18 year olds, will also begin in September. Acting classes for adults are offered in both the fall (September through November) and winter (January through February).

For more information on classes at Open Stage of Harrisburg, visit www.openstagehbg.com.

 

August Theater Events
At Harrisburg’s
Professional Downtown Theaters

AT GAMUT THEATRE
www.gamuttheatre.org

POPCORN HAT PLAYERS PRESENT
“Cinderella”
Aug. 3-20
Wednesdays and Thursdays at 10 a.m. and Saturdays at 1 p.m.

STAGE DOOR SERIES PRESENTS
“As She Likes It”
Aug. 12-21
Friday and Saturday at 7:30 p.m. and Sunday at 2:30 p.m.

 

AT OPEN STAGE
OF HARRISBURG
www.openstagehbg.com

SEASON 31 SUBSCRIPTIONS
on sale August to October
$120 for 5 plays

OPEN STAGE STUDIO/SCHOOL
enrollment open for Fall classes
Youth ages 8 and up
Adult acting classes available

Author: Laura Dugan

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Story Time: Untitled tells of life in Harrisburg, one person at a time.

Screenshot 2016-03-30 00.41.16In May 2013, people started coming together in Harrisburg to tell stories.

They did not come to perform for each other or debate one another. Untitled was formed to give people the chance to share true stories. Guests will not hear hot takes or sound bites but uninterrupted testimony from Harrisburg residents.

“Hearing true stories, whether they’re written or whether they’re live, is popular because, sometimes, the craziest stuff is true,” said Caitlin Copus, one of the founders.

Organizing a regular event series in which people are allowed to speak before an audience might, for some, count among that crazy stuff. But, to Copus, the need for people to hear other people share their experiences is undeniable. That’s why Untitled keeps its storytelling live and local.

“You don’t really stop and listen to someone tell a whole story very often,” she said.

But that’s what you hear at Untitled, now in its fourth year thanks to Copus, host Paul Barker (the same Paul Barker who is the senior writer for TheBurg), sound designer Douglas Weaver, graphic designer (and Copus’ husband) Jeff Copus and professor Janet Bixler of Central Penn College. The whole committee works together to organize and plan every event, including finding storytellers.

“For some of our events, we’ve had everyone enter the drawing at the event, and then, at some of our events, we’ve had all pre-selected storytellers,” said Copus. “Now we do half and half—half of our storytellers know ahead of time that they’re going to tell a story, and the other half of our storytellers enter when they’re there.”

The mix keeps the events community-focused and leaves room for surprises.

The most memorable event, Copus said, was one of the first Untitled organized.

“The theme was ‘Fathers,’” she said. “It was June, so it was close to Father’s Day. We had someone tell a pretty powerful story about struggling with a poor relationship with his father who passed away. We had someone talking about how his wife had given birth to a stillborn child.”

 

Only in Harrisburg

Untitled strives to keep slots open for eight storytellers per event, each of which run roughly for an hour and a half.

When Untitled started, events were held monthly, but that became increasingly difficult for the small team to organize. So, the schedule is now quarterly, which, Copus said, has made them more special.

“We didn’t always have as many stories when we were doing [the events] monthly,” she said. “We’re hoping, with the quarterly format, that we’ll get a full evening of stories at each event.”

Untitled also has a new home at Zeroday Brewing Co. after outgrowing the intimate art space, The MakeSpace, and, for a time, roving every month through various places in Harrisburg.

Every Untitled event has a theme, and it was fitting that, after a transient 2015, Untitled debuted at Zeroday with “Journeys.” Before that, events like “Revolutions” took them to the Susquehanna Art Museum, “Race” was held in the Harrisburg Brethren in Christ Church, and they stopped at the LGBT Center of Central Pennsylvania for “Crush.”

“It was fun to go to different places and to try to bring in different audiences, but I wasn’t sure if it was the easiest thing for people who enjoy our events to follow,” said Copus.

It makes sense that a community bar would be a good fit for some organized storytelling, and Zeroday has been “gracious and accommodating” to Untitled, said Copus. It was in their new home that Untitled held Copus’ favorite event they have organized yet, “Only in Harrisburg.”

“The best themes are the ones that can be interpreted different ways so we get a really wide variety of stories,” she said.

The audience votes one story per event the winner, and the winner of “Only in Harrisburg” was a girl who recounted her experience of being catcalled and then calling out and educating her catcaller.

“Now, she still sees him all the time, and he tries to say all these respectful things that she told him to say,” said Copus.

The reason she and her fellow organizers are still doing Untitled “is probably the same reason that we started it. It’s a really nice community event,” said Copus. “Storytelling is a powerful way to connect with people and for people to connect with each other.”

A lot has changed in the past three years, and Copus is prepared to take forthcoming, inevitable changes in stride. For now, Untitled events are planned for the rest of 2016.

“Storytelling events are getting to be fairly popular,” Copus noted, citing Story Slams that have taken off in York and Lancaster. “It’s really neat that we can be a part of that storytelling community and have that right here in Harrisburg. It’s a great thing to be able to offer to people. Come out to this free event, and you can hear people and meet people.” 

Learn more about Untitled Harrisburg, including the event schedule, at www.untitledhbg.com.

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Over It

A scene from "Over It," at the Central PA LGBT Center.

A scene from “Over It,” at the Central PA LGBT Center.

The invitation popped up on my Facebook page. It read “Over It.” Over what? Global warming, snow, 15-degree temperatures? Clues developed as I read on.

“Join the cast and supporters of ‘The Vagina Monologues’ as we present ‘Over it,’” a dramatic presentation of an essay against rape and domestic violence, Feb. 13.

To be completely honest, two things scared me about this event. First, the “V” word. I have liberal leanings, but, when it comes to female body parts, I swing quickly to the conservative side. Blame it on Catholic school or growing up in a family that just didn’t talk about that stuff. I can’t say the word “vagina” without cringing a little inside.

Second, the anger and possible man-hating I thought I could encounter. Coming from a family with five brothers, raising three sons, and having a husband who has proved himself a wonderful partner, teammate in life and confidant, man-hating hits close to home for me.

Despite my concerns, which, by the way, were based not on any personal experience but only on media exposure, I wanted to attend this event. New experiences are good for us. They shape us, grow us and give experiences on which to form informed opinions and perspectives.

My friend and I carpooled together and navigated the Harrisburg parking meter system–a system that I’ve contributed about $100 to this year, because, in Harrisburg, if you are one minute late on your meter, you will be found and fined accordingly! I digress. That’s a rant for another blog.

We entered the LGBT Center on 3rd Street to standing room only, except for the dreaded front seats. Well-lit and cheery, the space had art on the walls and light, hardwood floors. The diverse group consisted mostly of women with a smattering of men.

The event began with a discussion around local violence against women, such as the death of Karlie Hall, a young Millersville student, recently killed, allegedly by her boyfriend. Then came a video about 1 Billion Rising, an event of which I was completely unaware. This campaign shines light on and seeks to end the violence perpetrated against 1 billion women and girls around the world.

It began with images of women and girls being harassed, beaten and mutilated. No gratuitous images of victimization, but images that captured the feelings of helplessness and pain. Then came the “one.” These same women and many others stand up to their abusers and, with one finger held high in the air, make a statement against gender-based violence, presenting a portrayal of unity and voice.

Then abruptly the “monologues,” based on an essay by Eve Ensler, began. An audience member stood up and said firmly, “I’m over rape.” Another woman rose and described rape’s “soul splintering” effects. A third emphatically communicated the lifelong, life-altering consequences of rape. The monologues continued with one woman after another asking difficult questions. Why do women blame themselves? Why does society blame them for the crime against them? Why do men who are accused get a free pass?

One question left a big impression on me. The good men out there: “Where the hell are they?” Why don’t they come to our aid?

The feelings expressed included anger, but, more importantly, frustration and disappointment at humanity for not standing up for those who need it.

Afterward, I introduced myself to a number of the performers and employees of the National Resource Center on Domestic Violence, so full of energy, enthusiasm and passion. I shared a personal experience of having unwanted sexual advances made toward me by a trusted father figure. I shared how my first thought after that experience was, “What did I do?” I shared how the second thing I did was immediately tell a trusted friend. Everyone shook their heads in understanding. I teared up.

We talked about what keeps women quiet about their abuse—shame. Shamed people deny and ignore. Shame tries to force silence because it assigns culpability. Women, however, are not responsible for their abuse.

I talked to Demora, a state employee by day and director of Harrisburg’s upcoming presentation of the “The Vagina Monologues” by night. I asked her why she’s participated in this event for the past seven years.

With great feeling, she said it was about healing. As women, we have a habit of hiding things. She said that we’ve all been raped in some way, if not sexually then emotionally or spiritually. If not by a man then by society or by life. That women hide their wounds and “The Vagina Monologues” brings those hurts to the surface so they can heal. I wanted to yell, “Preach it!”

Despite the weighty conversations, people smiled and laughed, drank some wine and ate cupcakes. This place and event were about unity, trust, about understanding and support. No mommy wars here, no facades. What I would have missed, had I succumbed to my unfounded misgivings. I left with a bolstered spirit and some new friends. One thing hasn’t changed though. I still can’t say the “V” word.

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